the layer and the foundation

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why heartbreak feels like a physical injury

The chest pain, the appetite loss, the feeling that you've been hit by something. Heartbreak isn't a metaphor. Your brain processes it almost exactly like a physical wound.

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Who's still cashing in

the dating app selling you back your own instincts

Dating apps say they exist to help you find connection. Most people who use them for long enough start to feel the opposite of connected. This isn't a design flaw. It's closer to a design goal.

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